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Sunday, May 3, 2009

My Dad -- 1929--May 3, 2009

Thank you so much all for your emails, blog comments, thoughts, and prayers -- it means so much to me. Dad passed away peacefully at 1:40 this morning. We all got to spend time with him, and even though he was unresponsive since Saturday morning and couldn't talk to us, that doesn't mean he couldn't hear us. I know he could and I spent the afternoon and evening talking to him and holding his hand. The nursing staff and volunteers at this hospice are absolute angels. I know by talking to the nurses that Dad had the best care there is. I'd sent them a box of my books (3 of each book) and the staff are devouring them. : ) I'll send them more once I get home -- the books, thank yous, and hugs of gratitude are the least I can do for all they did for Dad.

We didn't get back to my sister's house and to bed until around 4:00 this morning. (Derek & I are staying with my sister and her family and they live about 10 minutes from the hospice house.) I've had about an hour and a half of sleep, and Derek's trying to get some more sleep now since we have to drive back to North Carolina this afternoon.

I have a dental appt. tomorrow for a crown (and hopefully not another root canal), so I'll be taking tomorrow and Tuesday off work to get some rest and get my legs back under me. I'll try to be back to business as usual on Wednesday.

Love you all!
Lisa

18 Comments:

Blogger Llehn said...

Hug.

May 3, 2009 at 9:48 AM  
Blogger Jo said...

Lisa, I am so sorry, as useless as that is. I can't possibly imagine how you're feeling. At least your Dad isn't suffering anymore. Again, my thoughts are with you and your family.

May 3, 2009 at 10:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hug, Hug Hug Hug

I imagine we can't help you feel better much Lisa, but we're all here for you and I hope you're doing okay.

If there is anything we can do...

and our thoughts are with you, your dad, and your family

hug

May 3, 2009 at 3:37 PM  
Blogger K.C. Shaw said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I hope you're holding up all right; take care of yourself.

May 3, 2009 at 4:11 PM  
Blogger Lisa said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm glad he was around for your first 3 books to debut!
It's painful losing a parent.

May 3, 2009 at 5:38 PM  
Blogger H said...

Joining in with the hugging.
Hospice staff are so awesome, it can't be an easy job yet they're so lovely.
I'm so sorry Lisa xx

May 3, 2009 at 6:19 PM  
Anonymous Victoria Blake said...

I am glad you got to see him before he passed on. It had to be very comforting to him knowing you were there. You are still in my prayers Lisa! Try to get some rest!

May 3, 2009 at 6:20 PM  
Blogger Anne said...

This is one of those times when I don't know what to say. So I just hope some hugs, can speak for me. {sympathetic smile, HUGS, SQUEEZE, BIG SQUEEZE, GREAT BIG SQUEEZE, GREAT BIG LONG TIGHT ROCKING SQUEEZE}

Anne Elizabeth Baldwin

May 4, 2009 at 2:41 AM  
Blogger Pissenlit said...

*hug* Take care of yourselves.

May 4, 2009 at 3:49 AM  
Blogger Suzana said...

I'm very sorry about your father

May 4, 2009 at 5:10 AM  
Anonymous otto said...

Hugs
You're in my (and everyone else's) thoughts.

May 4, 2009 at 9:01 AM  
Blogger works4me said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad Lisa. It's good to know he got such good care in his final days and that the whole family was able to be there for him at the end, and for each other. Take care of yourself and one another.

May 4, 2009 at 10:57 AM  
Blogger Britt said...

*hugs*

Hang in there.

May 4, 2009 at 11:52 AM  
Anonymous Tina said...

My thoughts are with you Lisa
take care

May 4, 2009 at 12:10 PM  
Anonymous Elyse said...

Mrs. Lisa,

I'm really sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm sure that he loved hearing you talk to him and that he's up in Heaven smiling and reading your new book.

*hugs*

Praying for you.

May 4, 2009 at 3:25 PM  
Anonymous Chicory said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. That's so tough, to loose part of your family. I'll be praying for you.

May 4, 2009 at 7:26 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Lisa,

I am so sorry about your dad. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

~Emily

May 5, 2009 at 8:49 AM  
Blogger Karen Mahoney said...

I'm so sorry. I lurk here from time to time and am very sad to hear this.

*hugs*

Karen

May 5, 2009 at 4:43 PM  

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